Ok so there's this issue that has always bothered me from the beginning of time (or at least as far back as I can remember). I've always hated the way guys have guy talk and what seems to be the typical single mans sexual habits.
1.Its irritating the way they talk about their sexual encounters. Why do guys feel it's necessary to say things like.."Yea man I promise I didn't fuck her I just went to sleep." or "Man this fat girl sucked the hell outta my dick."
2. The way the typical guy has to sow his wild oats with any girl who will let him. How hard is it to not have sex with someone? Especially if your not in a committed relationship and it's just with random people. I don't understand.
I mean are you really that weak minded that you have to be controlled by your dick? I mean like get some substance to your life/personality other than sex. For me one of the most unattractive things to me is a guy with multiple sex partners, who changes women like he changes his underwear.
I'm so sick of this being the norm but am I wrong for wanting something different?
-I know this is not the case with everybody
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Wednesday Weirdness
Wednesday Weirdness #47Questions by: Tanya the Harlot, Bella Dreamer and Amorous Rocker
1.) In your opinion, what is your biggest character flaw?
Um, sometimes I can be a little needy
2.) What do you think is one of the worst television shows ever created?
Let's just eliminate the WHOLE ESPN channel and all it's spawns (espn 2, etc), some of those adult swim cartoons on cartoon network (pointless)
3.) Have you ever ended up injured after trying an interesting new sex position?
Injured? Thats for amateurs. Just kiddin ;)
4.) How crucial do you think communication is between you and a regular sexual partner? Do you talk often about what works, what doesn't, things you want to try, etc or do you keep the discussions to a minimal and let the physical flow as it may?
Um if by regular sex partner you mean friends with benefits (or just benefits)-Id say there's basically no talking required (at least from what I've heard not from experience), If you mean a sexual partner in a relationship communication is very important especially if you plan to be in it for the long run.
5.) Who are your favorite comedic actors/actresses?
Jamie Foxx, Martin Lawrence, Will Smith, Eddie Murphy, Steve Harvey and I'm probably leavin someone out
6.) In what way(s) do you wish your childhood was different?
Man thats a question. Growing up with both parents.
7.) Cotton Candy; Delicious treat or disgusting mess?
A delicious mess
1.) In your opinion, what is your biggest character flaw?
Um, sometimes I can be a little needy
2.) What do you think is one of the worst television shows ever created?
Let's just eliminate the WHOLE ESPN channel and all it's spawns (espn 2, etc), some of those adult swim cartoons on cartoon network (pointless)
3.) Have you ever ended up injured after trying an interesting new sex position?
Injured? Thats for amateurs. Just kiddin ;)
4.) How crucial do you think communication is between you and a regular sexual partner? Do you talk often about what works, what doesn't, things you want to try, etc or do you keep the discussions to a minimal and let the physical flow as it may?
Um if by regular sex partner you mean friends with benefits (or just benefits)-Id say there's basically no talking required (at least from what I've heard not from experience), If you mean a sexual partner in a relationship communication is very important especially if you plan to be in it for the long run.
5.) Who are your favorite comedic actors/actresses?
Jamie Foxx, Martin Lawrence, Will Smith, Eddie Murphy, Steve Harvey and I'm probably leavin someone out
6.) In what way(s) do you wish your childhood was different?
Man thats a question. Growing up with both parents.
7.) Cotton Candy; Delicious treat or disgusting mess?
A delicious mess
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Wednesday Weirdness
WW #46Questions by: Another Suburban Mom
1. What makes a person sexy to you?
Confidence definitely as well as sense of humor. Gentlemen.
2. When having the 'number of sex partners' talk with a potential significant other, would you be turned off if they had slept with more than a certain number of people? If yes, what is that number?
If you have too many sexual partners it's a BIG turnoff. How many is too many?? Not sure.
3. Once and for all, pocketbook sized dogs and the people who carry them in pocketbooks. Cute or crazy?
I don't have a problem with you carrying around mans best friend what I do have a problem with however is people who put clothes on their animals. Unnecessary!!!! and too much.
4. Do you give up anything for Lent? If so, what?
Lent?? No, Im not catholic. And it seems kinda random.
5. If you live with someone, what is the one thing you will never let them see you do?
I don't live with anyone other than my parents but if I lived with my boyfriend I would NEVER let him see me boo boo. Ew
1. What makes a person sexy to you?
Confidence definitely as well as sense of humor. Gentlemen.
2. When having the 'number of sex partners' talk with a potential significant other, would you be turned off if they had slept with more than a certain number of people? If yes, what is that number?
If you have too many sexual partners it's a BIG turnoff. How many is too many?? Not sure.
3. Once and for all, pocketbook sized dogs and the people who carry them in pocketbooks. Cute or crazy?
I don't have a problem with you carrying around mans best friend what I do have a problem with however is people who put clothes on their animals. Unnecessary!!!! and too much.
4. Do you give up anything for Lent? If so, what?
Lent?? No, Im not catholic. And it seems kinda random.
5. If you live with someone, what is the one thing you will never let them see you do?
I don't live with anyone other than my parents but if I lived with my boyfriend I would NEVER let him see me boo boo. Ew
Thursday, March 5, 2009
The Catch Up
As usual I'm behind on my posts. I could say I'll try to keep them current but id be lying. No new developments in my life really. I went to my boyfriends over the weekend. We didn't do much cuz it was cold and it snowed. I'm not complaining too much though because I honestly do just like his company and waking up next to him. It feels good. More on that later. In other news my aunt's birthday was Thursday. I called and said happy birthday and she asked the usual questions. While throwing in that she was praying for m...uh thanks. I mean how are you supposed to take that. It's not bad but she must feel I'm doing something to where I need prayer. In saying that I have noticed that I feel more connected to Sauda's family than I do my own. I feel like I can be myself with them. With my family I feel like I'm on pins and needles because they're always judging me. I mean that could show that they care but I don't know. Now, school I'm getting sick of it. I want a break to regroup. So far I think I'm handling my 18 hours pretty well but I just want to be done and graduated. I'm taking 2 classes over the summer and next fall I'm taking 18 hours which will consist of mammology, genetics, comparative anatomy, experimental psychology, industrial psychology, and social dance. I will definitely need to focus. Back to the issue at hand. Ok so I proposed the idea that my boyfriend and I should abstain from sex for a year. As you can imagine he expressed his unwillingness to participate in such an offer. But I really want to try. I mean what can it hurt? The relationship? Then it wasn't meant to be. I want a new mindset in life, I'm ready for change. I want to be a better person.
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